On the Cessation of Coitus in a Marriage – by Kate Nguyen

Obviously, when coitus stops, you are in trouble. If it continues for more than a year, I am told there is a legal name for it – Constructive Abandonment.  Coitus cannot stop in a marriage without consequence. But why does it sometimes stop? What caused a couple to grow tired and bored with each other? … Continue reading “On the Cessation of Coitus in a Marriage – by Kate Nguyen”

On the Proper Care of a Vagina, For Young Wives – by Kate Nguyen

When Donald Trump was caught on tape saying the “p” word, the country and maybe the entire planet collectively gasped. Nobody could believe that a man running for president had used the word pussy. It’s as if it is a big crime or something to refer to a woman’s body parts. I happen to like … Continue reading “On the Proper Care of a Vagina, For Young Wives – by Kate Nguyen”

The Science of Successful, Sizzling Marital Sex

Is your marital sex a sizzling success? Or is it an epic fail? By “sex” I am referring to the sessions you are having with your spouse. And only those. Are they successful, hot and unforgettable and sizzling? Girl, I know. This topic is too hot to handle but I am here to tell you that … Continue reading “The Science of Successful, Sizzling Marital Sex”

10 Yummy Ideas For Post-Divorce Dating

Here are 10 ideas for post-divorce dates (in the early months) So I just posted on post-divorce dating tips for women over 40 which you can find here. Now I want to talk about a few fun ideas for actual dates. It doesn’t always have to be the old “dinner and a movie” although for … Continue reading “10 Yummy Ideas For Post-Divorce Dating”

Post Divorce Dating After 40: Are You Ready To Get Back Into It?

Dating after divorce can be intimidating for women over 40 For women of a certain age, getting divorced and then finding new love and partners is hard. They are completely shell-shocked by the whole experience and have no idea how to get their groove back – especially if they have been out of the dating … Continue reading “Post Divorce Dating After 40: Are You Ready To Get Back Into It?”

Getting Divorced Because Your Spouse Could Not Give You the Big “O”?

If your spouse could not provide you with regular orgasms during your marriage (especially true of heterosexual couples and speaking more about orgasm challenged wives) it could be that you picked the wrong husband in the first place. A recent article in the New York Post suggests that there could be a science to the … Continue reading “Getting Divorced Because Your Spouse Could Not Give You the Big “O”?”

Is it a sex crime if my ex spouse diffuses our sextape on the Internet?

Wow. This is a very good question. You have to consider that a lot of people have become famous from the diffusion of sextapes – to wit: Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian. So it is not clear that the mere diffusion of the tape is a “crime.” Sex crimes are serious and it requires the … Continue reading “Is it a sex crime if my ex spouse diffuses our sextape on the Internet?”

Infidelity is Natural. People Should Stop Putting Unrealistic Pressure on their Spouse

It is natural and human to desire more than one person in any given lifetime. Monogomy is not only boring it is totally unrealistic and unnatural. Human species like other animal species are social creatures. They have eyes and they have five senses which connects them and keeps them connected to others around them in … Continue reading “Infidelity is Natural. People Should Stop Putting Unrealistic Pressure on their Spouse”

When your ex husband’s new girlfriend hates the kids: What can you do?

Do you have to sit back and let your kids be exposed to an angry, controlling, jealous and impatient new woman all in the name of co-parenting and joint custody? I mean, what if your husband’s new missus just straight up can’t stand your children? She doesn’t hit them and leave marks (that would be … Continue reading “When your ex husband’s new girlfriend hates the kids: What can you do?”

Sex & Divorce: Do the # of premarital sex partners you’ve had increase your divorce odds?

I just saw this on Science Daily and I thought “for heaven’s sakes.”  This is a research done by the University of Utah and you have to wonder: Did someone actually get funding to do this? With all the important issues that need answers and resolutions they are researching whether the number of premarital sex … Continue reading “Sex & Divorce: Do the # of premarital sex partners you’ve had increase your divorce odds?”

Should you demand a divorce if someone else’s “privates” ends up on your spouse’s cell phone?

Ahem.  Give me a second, I am giggling….omg…. I got this idea for this post because I was reading somewhere about an American TV show produced by Shonda Rimes called How To Get Away With Murder (Shonda seems to have created a lot of interesting top rated TV shows in America including one called Scandal … Continue reading “Should you demand a divorce if someone else’s “privates” ends up on your spouse’s cell phone?”

One reason that a porn habit is so destructive to a marriage

What is the main reason that a porn habit often leads to divorce? The emphasis is on the word “main” because there are more than one reason why this is toxic. The main reason though, according to our

What is the main reason that a porn habit often leads to divorce? The emphasis is on the word “main” because there are more than one reason why this is toxic. The main reason though, according to our

The Self-confessed Sex Addict Cheater: Should you ask for a divorce RIGHT NOW?

If there are kids involved, it might be tempting to stay and try to work on the Relationship even if one’s spouse is a self-confessed sex addict cheater.

If there are kids involved, it might be tempting to stay and try to work on the Relationship even if one’s spouse is a self-confessed sex addict cheater.

On sex

The consequences of sex can also have an impact during marriage and after marriage – namely, children. And this présents challenges for divorce lawyers. Sex makes kids. It has a weird way of turning into that. Kids can be good for a marriage or they can destroy it. It all depends. After marriage, sex that resulted in kids can indirectly be blamed for all the custody fights, child support dodging, deadbeats, abductions and even murders.

The consequences of sex can also have an impact during marriage and after marriage – namely, children. And this présents challenges for divorce lawyers. Sex makes kids. It has a weird way of turning into that. Kids can be good for a marriage or they can destroy it. It all depends. After marriage, sex that resulted in kids can indirectly be blamed for all the custody fights, child support dodging, deadbeats, abductions and even murders.

MASSACHUSETTS: Sex in the Divorce

Sex in the Divorce An article I recently read  about a draft bill in Massachusetts that proposes a ban on sex or dating in the marital residence without prior judicial consent pending the finalization of the divorce action, inspired this post. Can a judge legally forbid an adult, who happens to be in the midst of … Continue reading “MASSACHUSETTS: Sex in the Divorce”