There obviously will be the exceptions to the rule and you will find people who have vast differences in age who are able to sustain a long lasting marriage and people who are practically born on the same day who cannot sustain a long lasting marriage.
After all, how much sex can you possibly have before it becomes utterly numbing? You become numb, for Christ’s sakes. When you are married, more is needed than just mind/organ-numbing sex!
Statistics show that people who remarry have a greater chance of ending up divorced the second time around as compared to first timers. Why is this? It is not clear. It could just be that people lack the confidence after they have been divorced before, that they can remain successfully and happily married. At www.divorcesaloon-dates.com, […]
Want to get divorced from your loser spouse? When you are married to a loser, you can figure this out very quickly, or it can take years. It depends on how good the loser is at camouflage or how good you are at pretending and kidding yourself. Whatever the case may be, this is what […]
Some people claim they are staying married for the sake of the kids. In other words, were there no kids, they would get a divorce from their current spouse but because they have kids with this person, they will continue to tough out the bad marriage. Is this a good thing? I am not sure. […]
Married to a narc Are you married to a narcissist? Or are you one? And is this wrecking your marriage, aka driving you to divorce court? Or maybe you haven’t put a label on it but you know that something is off in your relationship and you feel yourself becoming increasingly unhappy and thoughts of divorce […]
Want to Save Your Marriage? Repeat this phrase: “It’s My Fault that My Marriage is not Meeting My Expectations”
That’s right. Don’t blame your spouse for the implosion of your marriage. Look at yourself and all your unrealistic expectations. How did you contribute to this marital meltdown without meaning to? So many possible ways. For example you did it by: Being judgmental Not listening Wanting everything to be your way or the highway Being […]
You can fake almost any emotion. Did you know that? And one of those emotions that you can fake is “love.” In fact, so powerful is this tool of faking emotions, that you can use it to save a marriage that has been declared dead by the marriage coroner – assuming you are even interested in […]
The way a couple communicates will determine whether their marriage will last or not. There are 4 key indicators of healthy communication between partners – and conversely, 4 key indicators of unhealthy communication. The healthy communication obviously will lead to more successful marriages and the unhealthy communication necessarily will lead to unsuccessful marriages. Here are […]
This one is a weird topic but we were discussing this subject yesterday and it came up about my friend Josh who I knew senior year in college. We liked each other, and hung out all the time but it was always very weird between us. I was never sure if he liked me in […]
Sure, this is how you feel right now, fresh out of divorce court after a blistering two years of back and forth between attorneys, you and your spouse. You have been burned big time. And it is not just the process of divorce. It could have also been the marriage itself. Marriage can be hard […]
Obviously, when coitus stops, you are in trouble. If it continues for more than a year, I am told there is a legal name for it – Constructive Abandonment. Coitus cannot stop in a marriage without consequence. But why does it sometimes stop? What caused a couple to grow tired and bored with each other? […]
In the post The Science of Succcessful, Sizzling Marital Sex I tried, perhaps unsuccessfully to provide you with some ideas of what could be missing and what you needed to do, from a scientific perspective, to fix what is wrong in your marital boudoir. Well, never mind that article. It was a fail. Let’s talk […]
Babies can lead to massive marital upheavals. Sure, swimming in your lovely little head is this Brangelina fantasy of a passel of impossibly cute babies turned children that you can cart across continents to the glee of paparazzi and other voyeurs – and happily ever after with your own gorgeous & gorgeous equivalent of Brad Pitt. […]
Is your spouse cheating on you? Hopefully not but all too often, where there is smoke there is fire. Do you suspect cheating is going on? Have you confronted him or her? And what did they say? It turns out there are some common lies that all cheaters use all the time to try to […]