Your Second Marriage Can Be More Successful Than Your First if you follow these 5 tips

Statistics show that people who remarry have a greater chance of ending up divorced the second time around as compared to first timers. Why is this? It is not clear. It could just be that people lack the confidence after they have been divorced before, that they can remain successfully and happily married. At www.divorcesaloon-dates.com, … Continue reading “Your Second Marriage Can Be More Successful Than Your First if you follow these 5 tips”

What to do when you are married to a loser

Want to get divorced from your loser spouse? When you are married to a loser, you can figure this out very quickly, or it can take years. It depends on how good the loser is at camouflage or how good you are at pretending and kidding yourself. Whatever the case may be, this is what … Continue reading “What to do when you are married to a loser”

In a marriage from hell but don’t want to get divorced for the sake of the kids?

Some people claim they are staying married for the sake of the kids. In other words, were there no kids, they would get a divorce from their current spouse but because they have kids with this person, they will continue to tough out the bad marriage. Is this a good thing? I am not sure. … Continue reading “In a marriage from hell but don’t want to get divorced for the sake of the kids?”

Is Your Narcissistic Spouse Ruining Your Marriage?

Married to a narc Are you married to a narcissist? Or are you one? And is this wrecking your marriage, aka driving you to divorce court? Or maybe you haven’t put a label on it but you know that something is off in your relationship and you feel yourself becoming increasingly unhappy and thoughts of divorce … Continue reading “Is Your Narcissistic Spouse Ruining Your Marriage?”

Want to Save Your Marriage? Repeat this phrase: “It’s My Fault that My Marriage is not Meeting My Expectations”

That’s right. Don’t blame your spouse for the implosion of your marriage. Look at yourself and all your unrealistic expectations. How did you contribute to this marital meltdown without meaning to? So many possible ways. For example you did it by: Being judgmental Not listening Wanting everything to be your way or the highway Being … Continue reading “Want to Save Your Marriage? Repeat this phrase: “It’s My Fault that My Marriage is not Meeting My Expectations””

Fake it Till You Feel it: Acting like You Still Love a Spouse You Hate Could Save Your Marriage

You can fake almost any emotion. Did you know that? And one of those emotions that you can fake is “love.” In fact, so powerful is this tool of faking emotions, that you can use it to save a marriage that has been declared dead by the marriage coroner – assuming you are even interested in … Continue reading “Fake it Till You Feel it: Acting like You Still Love a Spouse You Hate Could Save Your Marriage”

4 Reasons that your partner has stopped communicating with you (and why divorce is imminent)

The way a couple communicates will determine whether their marriage will last or not. There are 4 key indicators of healthy communication between partners – and conversely, 4 key indicators of unhealthy communication. The healthy communication obviously will lead to more successful marriages and the unhealthy communication necessarily will lead to unsuccessful marriages. Here are … Continue reading “4 Reasons that your partner has stopped communicating with you (and why divorce is imminent)”

7 types of wives who will get dumped within 7 years of their marriage

  These are the types of wives whose marriages will implode in seven years or less: The wife who has no passion of her own It is so important for a wife to have her own interests and her own passions and not to depend on her husband for her every bit of entertainment and … Continue reading “7 types of wives who will get dumped within 7 years of their marriage”

Do Black Men Cause the High Divorce Rate in Their Marriages By Refusing to Get Mental Help?

A lot of people in the black community still believe in this day and age that therapy is for white people. Black men in particular would prefer to jump out of a helicopter over Afghanistan (without a parachute) than go see a psychiatrist. The notion of going to marriage counseling even if it would safe their … Continue reading “Do Black Men Cause the High Divorce Rate in Their Marriages By Refusing to Get Mental Help?”

Former Cosby Star Keisha Knight Pulliam Gives Birth to Ella Grace Just 6 Months After Divorce Drama

Keisha has said she is finding grace and strength from her tiny baby daughter, Ella Grace. Keisha announced her divorce from her husband Ed Hartwell last July and has endured not a little bit of drama after he seemed to insinuated that….well, it is unclear if he was questioning his paternity of Ella Grace. You … Continue reading “Former Cosby Star Keisha Knight Pulliam Gives Birth to Ella Grace Just 6 Months After Divorce Drama”

On When He Takes Your Femininity Away – by Kate Nguyen

This one is a weird topic but we were discussing this subject yesterday and it came up about my friend Josh who I knew senior year in college. We liked each other, and hung out all the time but it was always very weird between us. I was never sure if he liked me in … Continue reading “On When He Takes Your Femininity Away – by Kate Nguyen”

I Will Never Get Married Again!

Sure, this is how you feel right now, fresh out of divorce court after a blistering two years of back and forth between attorneys, you and your spouse. You have been burned big time. And it is not just the process of divorce. It could have also been the marriage itself. Marriage can be hard … Continue reading “I Will Never Get Married Again!”

On the Cessation of Coitus in a Marriage – by Kate Nguyen

Obviously, when coitus stops, you are in trouble. If it continues for more than a year, I am told there is a legal name for it – Constructive Abandonment.  Coitus cannot stop in a marriage without consequence. But why does it sometimes stop? What caused a couple to grow tired and bored with each other? … Continue reading “On the Cessation of Coitus in a Marriage – by Kate Nguyen”

10 Cult Books You Need to Read This Year to Spice Up Your (Married) Love Life

In the post The Science of Succcessful, Sizzling Marital Sex I tried, perhaps unsuccessfully to provide you with some ideas of what could be missing and what you needed to do, from a scientific perspective, to fix what is wrong in your marital boudoir. Well, never mind that article. It was a fail. Let’s talk … Continue reading “10 Cult Books You Need to Read This Year to Spice Up Your (Married) Love Life”

On When Baby Makes a Divorce – by Kate Nguyen

  Babies can lead to massive marital upheavals. Sure, swimming in your lovely little head is this Brangelina fantasy of a passel of impossibly cute babies turned children that you can cart across continents to the glee of paparazzi and other voyeurs – and happily ever after with your own gorgeous & gorgeous equivalent of Brad Pitt. … Continue reading “On When Baby Makes a Divorce – by Kate Nguyen”

“She’s Just a Friend” + 4 Other Common Lies Your Cheating Spouse Will Tell You

Is your spouse cheating on you? Hopefully not but all too often, where there is smoke there is fire. Do you suspect cheating is going on? Have you confronted him or her? And what did they say? It turns out there are some common lies that all cheaters use all the time to try to … Continue reading ““She’s Just a Friend” + 4 Other Common Lies Your Cheating Spouse Will Tell You”