Is your husband’s stinginess destroying your marriage?

When your husband is cheap, it could literally lead to divorce: But it doesn’t necessarily mean he is a bad person Let me ask you this question: How much did your husband spend on your first date together? Where did he take you? Did you go dutch? Why do I ask. No particular reason. I … Continue reading “Is your husband’s stinginess destroying your marriage?”

Boxer Amir Khan and Wife Faryal Makhdoom “Exhibit A” of Why a Married Couple Should Not Live With In Laws

By Xixi Gomez and Chrissie Zempuanova “I thought marriage would be a fairy tale,” Faryal Makhdoom When you read UK headlines that celebrity Pakistani boxer Amir Khan and his Muslim wife Faryal Makhdoom are having marriage and family problems that some predict this can only end in divorce, you can only cross your fingers that the wife’s last … Continue reading “Boxer Amir Khan and Wife Faryal Makhdoom “Exhibit A” of Why a Married Couple Should Not Live With In Laws”

Be Honest: Is Your Current Marriage a Total Waste of Your Time?

I don’t know why people waste time on bad marriages. They stay married to assholes, douchebags and couch potatoes hoping for what?

I don’t know why people waste time on bad marriages. They stay married to assholes, douchebags and couch potatoes hoping for what?

Is Your Pregnancy Ruining Your Sex Life to the Point that You Fear Divorce Could Happen?

Is your pregnancy destroying your marriage? Some guys can’t get intimate with their pregnant wives no matter what she does. She could try sexy lingerie, new acrobatic positions and scented candles but the thought that a life is growing inside her stomach and that it is actually kicking and moving, can literally render a husband … Continue reading “Is Your Pregnancy Ruining Your Sex Life to the Point that You Fear Divorce Could Happen?”

Can You Imagine a Scenario where You Give Your Spouse Permission to Sleep With Other People?

That would seem to distort and degrade the institution of marriage and the sanctity of what is was meant to be, wouldn’t it?

That would seem to distort and degrade the institution of marriage and the sanctity of what is was meant to be, wouldn’t it?

15 Questions to Ask Yourself before you marry this person

    Questions to ask before you marry:   What is this person’s religious and spiritual beliefs and habits and do they align with mine? Does this person want kids? Do I? What is this person’s socio economic status and are we evenly yoked in this regard? What is this person’s age and how does it compare … Continue reading “15 Questions to Ask Yourself before you marry this person”

Should Men Marry Fewer Brunettes and More Blonds to Reduce the Rate of Divorce?

More men ought to give more blonds a chance as spouses and stop discriminating against women because of their hair color.

More men ought to give more blonds a chance as spouses and stop discriminating against women because of their hair color.

Big Age Gaps Between a Couple Increase Divorce Odds

There obviously will be the exceptions to the rule and you will find people who have vast differences in age who are able to sustain a long lasting marriage and people who are practically born on the same day who cannot sustain a long lasting marriage.

There obviously will be the exceptions to the rule and you will find people who have vast differences in age who are able to sustain a long lasting marriage and people who are practically born on the same day who cannot sustain a long lasting marriage.

Great Sex But You Want a Divorce?

After all, how much sex can you possibly have before it becomes utterly numbing? You become numb, for Christ’s sakes. When you are married, more is needed than just mind/organ-numbing sex!

After all, how much sex can you possibly have before it becomes utterly numbing? You become numb, for Christ’s sakes. When you are married, more is needed than just mind/organ-numbing sex!

5 Ways That Black Women Can Be Better Wives

Marriage & Divorce in the Black Community With the divorce rate for people of African descent hovering around the 70 percent mark (a crisis by any definition) it is time for some unsolicited intervention one sister to another about how to be better at being married. I have thought up five key ways that so … Continue reading “5 Ways That Black Women Can Be Better Wives”

In Praise of Hollywood’s Strongest, Most Iconic Black Marriage: Denzel & Pauletta Washington

Married in 1983, Denzel and Pauletta Washington are one of the most enduring African American married couples in Tinsel Town. The couple has 4 children and have lived in California for the past several years where Denzel has been enjoying a prolific career as a leading film star. The couple met on the set of … Continue reading “In Praise of Hollywood’s Strongest, Most Iconic Black Marriage: Denzel & Pauletta Washington”

Your Second Marriage Can Be More Successful Than Your First if you follow these 5 tips

Statistics show that people who remarry have a greater chance of ending up divorced the second time around as compared to first timers. Why is this? It is not clear. It could just be that people lack the confidence after they have been divorced before, that they can remain successfully and happily married. At www.divorcesaloon-dates.com, … Continue reading “Your Second Marriage Can Be More Successful Than Your First if you follow these 5 tips”

What to do when you are married to a loser

Want to get divorced from your loser spouse? When you are married to a loser, you can figure this out very quickly, or it can take years. It depends on how good the loser is at camouflage or how good you are at pretending and kidding yourself. Whatever the case may be, this is what … Continue reading “What to do when you are married to a loser”

In a marriage from hell but don’t want to get divorced for the sake of the kids?

Some people claim they are staying married for the sake of the kids. In other words, were there no kids, they would get a divorce from their current spouse but because they have kids with this person, they will continue to tough out the bad marriage. Is this a good thing? I am not sure. … Continue reading “In a marriage from hell but don’t want to get divorced for the sake of the kids?”

Is Your Narcissistic Spouse Ruining Your Marriage?

Married to a narc Are you married to a narcissist? Or are you one? And is this wrecking your marriage, aka driving you to divorce court? Or maybe you haven’t put a label on it but you know that something is off in your relationship and you feel yourself becoming increasingly unhappy and thoughts of divorce … Continue reading “Is Your Narcissistic Spouse Ruining Your Marriage?”

Want to Save Your Marriage? Repeat this phrase: “It’s My Fault that My Marriage is not Meeting My Expectations”

That’s right. Don’t blame your spouse for the implosion of your marriage. Look at yourself and all your unrealistic expectations. How did you contribute to this marital meltdown without meaning to? So many possible ways. For example you did it by: Being judgmental Not listening Wanting everything to be your way or the highway Being … Continue reading “Want to Save Your Marriage? Repeat this phrase: “It’s My Fault that My Marriage is not Meeting My Expectations””