On Divorcing Your Rich Husband Because He and His Family (his mother!) Made you Unhappy

It is a question of scorn, jealousy, hate and prejudice. Mixed together it can be lethal. If your husband is not the type of guy who can stand up to his mother and sisters and other siblings, then yes, your marriage will be doomed

It is a question of scorn, jealousy, hate and prejudice. Mixed together it can be lethal. If your husband is not the type of guy who can stand up to his mother and sisters and other siblings, then yes, your marriage will be doomed

On Being Happy AFTER divorce, by Kate Nguyen

Just now, I completed an opinion piece called   How to have a Happy Divorce. It is a piece about the divorce process, and staying in a good frame of mind during this time – from getting served the divorce papers to actually getting the judgment of divorce. After I finished it, the editor asked me … Continue reading “On Being Happy AFTER divorce, by Kate Nguyen”

On How to Have a Happy Divorce Process, by Kate Nguyen

Some divorces just aren’t going to be a happy process no matter what you do. But others can be molded into clouds of light, fluffy happiness, in my opinion if you follow the advice I give you below. The way you have a happy divorce is: You first of all, keep a sense of humor no … Continue reading “On How to Have a Happy Divorce Process, by Kate Nguyen”

Statistics Show that People Between the Ages of 40 – 45 Are Most Likely to File for Divorce

What is going on with people between 40 and 45 years of age? Why are they so trigger happy when it comes to filing for divorce? Both in the United States and in the United Kingdom, it appears that this age group is the most divorce prone of all other age groups surveyed. And it … Continue reading “Statistics Show that People Between the Ages of 40 – 45 Are Most Likely to File for Divorce”

Notes on Traveling Solo After Divorce

I have always loved to travel and indeed it was how I met my husband in Buenos Aires in February 1996. During the beginning years of our marriage, we continued to travel a lot and we have probably visited at least one country on every continent, as well as we have cruised to Antarctica on … Continue reading “Notes on Traveling Solo After Divorce”

The Pretty Little Liar.

Is your wife a liar? Have you caught her in little white lies from time to time? Why do you keep forgiving her and overlooking it? Is it her eyes? Her pretty little innocent little face? Fellas, I have some bad news for you. You should not ignore this. You should not ignore when your … Continue reading “The Pretty Little Liar.”

On Wearing Your Divorce on Your Face by Kate Nguyen

The other day, my mother met up with a friend she’s known since high school who had recently become divorce. I know this person because her daughter and I are very good childhood friends and our families have a summer picnic together annually. But since last summer, the friend of my mother’s and the mother … Continue reading “On Wearing Your Divorce on Your Face by Kate Nguyen”

On Saving Your Own Life By Jumping Ship From a Bad Marriage, by Kate Nguyen

So one of my fellow bloggers wrote a post yesterday which I found interesting called  In a Marriage From Hell But don’t Want to Get Divorced for the Sake of the Kids which you can read here. We both agreed that it is completely ridiculous to say that a person should stay in their marriage no … Continue reading “On Saving Your Own Life By Jumping Ship From a Bad Marriage, by Kate Nguyen”

On Having an Unfairly Blemished Reputation – That Strains Your Relationship, by Kate Nguyen

Do you have a blemished reputation? What do I mean by that? Well, has something happened in your life, in your past that has caused others to question your integrity, honesty, decency or sanity? It is funny because in my own circles, there have been incidences where I’ve seen marriages crack up because of distrust … Continue reading “On Having an Unfairly Blemished Reputation – That Strains Your Relationship, by Kate Nguyen”

On Why Gisele Bundchen and Tom Brady Could Divorce Soon After a Superbowl Win, by Kate Nguyen

So, I am not a sports fan and I don’t know anything about football. Let’s just start with that. But my man is a football fanatic and so even I know that the Superbowl was this past weekend and that the Patriots won and that Tom Brady is a hero and that it is his fifth … Continue reading “On Why Gisele Bundchen and Tom Brady Could Divorce Soon After a Superbowl Win, by Kate Nguyen”

On Getting Dumped Because You Are “Too Beautiful” by Kate Nguyen

I have been told often that I am a pretty girl. And I get hit on a lot. It is just a normal part of my day. I don’t say this to brag. I just say this because it is what it is. I do have my flaws. One being that I am a little … Continue reading “On Getting Dumped Because You Are “Too Beautiful” by Kate Nguyen”

When a request for Divorce Leaves You Feeling Really REALLY Angry

Nobody can predict how they will respond in all situations and certainly when it comes to the divorce, and being asked for one, people’s reactions run the gamut. One reaction is raw, unchecked rage. We all prefer not to think about that. Because what do you do with the person who becomes so unhinged by … Continue reading “When a request for Divorce Leaves You Feeling Really REALLY Angry”

“We Have to Talk”: On Telling Your Spouse That You Want a Divorce

How to tell your spouse you want a divorce Some conversations are really difficult and telling your spouse (who doesn’t see it coming) that you want a divorce is going to be hard. It is hard to even imagine being at the receiving end of a conversation like this where you think you are in … Continue reading ““We Have to Talk”: On Telling Your Spouse That You Want a Divorce”

The Hypocrisy Known as an “Annulment”: Who in the Catholic Church Came Up With This Farce?

Is an Annulment Really Just a Fancy Name for a Divorce? Nothing in this post is intended to be disrespectful to the Catholic Church but I do believe that the whole concept of an “annulment” is nothing but unadulterated hypocrisy. And I know this from personal experience after my own annulment several years ago. It … Continue reading “The Hypocrisy Known as an “Annulment”: Who in the Catholic Church Came Up With This Farce?”

Being Single May Be Exactly What Your Married Self Needs Right Now

So you are married and miserable. You are thinking about divorce but the thought of being “single” sounds like contracting a dreaded disease. Surely being in an unhealthy, unhappy, unfulfilling marriage is better than being single and all by yourself with nobody to be miserable with. Right? It depends. For some people, being single just … Continue reading “Being Single May Be Exactly What Your Married Self Needs Right Now”

Three Strikes and You Are Out: After 3 Divorces Why in the World Would You Marry Again?

It does seem like a lot of divorces in one lifetime when you hit 3 divorces. It seems that this is the tipping point. Three divorces. After that, it’s enough. Don’t marry again. This is what a 3rd divorce should tell you. You are not the marrying kind. Jennifer Lopez has had three divorces. As … Continue reading “Three Strikes and You Are Out: After 3 Divorces Why in the World Would You Marry Again?”