How to divorce an abuser

You have to be careful when you divorce an abuser – particularly a physical abuser. The first thing you want to do before even serving the papers is to get an order of protection in place from either the family court or the criminal court. You want to be away from the vicinity of that […]

How to handle divorce anger

Divorce Information Many people feel a tremendous amount of anger during and after the divorce process. They may feel betrayed, blind-sided, alienated and wrongly accused. This is true for both men and women. In fact, I just did a post called the Divorced Dads and the disenfranchised father syndrome and the author of the piece […]

How to handle divorce guilt

Divorce Information A lot of people get divorce guilt. Guilt is something I understand because I am a guilt ridden individual. I mean, look at what I did yesterday. I decided to try out the divorce diet which my friend told me about and which I wrote about here (, knowing fully well that the […]

How to get a divorce without wrecking the kids

If it is true that the beautiful Tinsley Mortimer and her handsome hubby Topper are getting divorced (as disclosed on the New York Post Page Six), at least she doesn’t have to worry about the kids – because I’ve heard they didn’t have any. Presumably there were too many charity balls and philanthropic galas to fit […]

How to divorce the Greencard marriage

The best way to handle this is by way of an annulment as opposed to a divorce. You can ask the court to annul the marriage due “concealment of a material fact” or “fraud.” The procedure would then be similar to any other annulment or divorce action. You would prepare the summons and complaint, serve […]

How to divorce a politican revisited: Wife of congressman Tim Mahoney files for divorce amid an FBI probe that he illegally hired his mistress

What is a political wife like Terry Mahoney to do after she finds out that the FBI is probing her husband on account of the fact that he is believed to have hired his mistress and paid her from the congressional funds entrusted to his care? She files for divorce, of course. Democrat Tim Mahoney of […]

How to divorce a politician

Boy oh boy. This is a special kind of animal right here – the political marriage. I have to say, of all the demographics of men out there, I don’t think I could handle being the wife of a politician. I just don’t have the right temperament, and much too low a threshold and tolerance […]

How to walk out of your marriage and feel no guilt

When Brad Pitt walked out on Jennifer Anniston and flew into the arms of Angelina Jolie, he probably experienced at least a little bit of guilt. That is because he fell for another woman while married to his ex, even though, by the looks of things, his ex is a perfectly nice, all American girl (and was his […]

How to know if you’ve got the divorce blues

You may either be contemplating divorce, or are in the process of divorce, or may have recently been adjudicated divorce. Whatever your status, you are not feeling all that great emotionally. You feel a tremendous sense of loss. Or you are in denial. You can’t believe this is happening or has happened. Or, you may […]

How to divorce a jerk

It’s not easy to circumnavigate marriage to a jerk and it certainly isn’t easy to circumnavigate divorce from a jerk. A jerk can be male or female. A jerk is someone who is unreasonable for no reason, nasty with no justification, disloyal, under-handed, two-faced, dishonest, indiscreet, manipulative, conniving, and boorish. These types (and their lawyers) […]