5 Best Shampoos to “Wash Your Ex Out of Your Hair”

Ever heard that song “I’m gonna wash that man right out of my hair”? Well, it’s actually a shampoo! Did you know that there is a shampoo called “Wash That Man Right Out of My Hair”? You can find it over at Lush at this link. But if you don’t like that figgy, guava-y, sandalrosey scent, … Continue reading “5 Best Shampoos to “Wash Your Ex Out of Your Hair””

8 Myths and Misconceptions About Divorce

8 Myths and Misconceptions about divorce That there was something fundamentally “wrong” with one of you to have caused the divorce. Not necessarily. It could be that you were meant to be just friends and that being married just wasn’t the right set up. The two of you could have been perfectly perfect. Just for … Continue reading “8 Myths and Misconceptions About Divorce”

10 Funniest “Congratulations on your Divorce” Quotes

Divorce doldrums got you down? Here are 10 Divorce Quotes to cheer yourself up with Unknown “If marriage means you fell in love, does divorce mean you climbed out?” Robin Williams “Ah, yes, divorce . . . from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man’s genitals through his wallet.” Roseann Barr “I am … Continue reading “10 Funniest “Congratulations on your Divorce” Quotes”

10 things you lose when you get a “grey divorce”

Let me just start by observing that grey divorces are the new black in the divorce arena. People over 50 are almost as likely if not more so to get divorce than their younger counterparts and this did not always used to be the case. It used to be if you survived in your marriage … Continue reading “10 things you lose when you get a “grey divorce””

7 types of wives who will get dumped within 7 years of their marriage

  These are the types of wives whose marriages will implode in seven years or less: The wife who has no passion of her own It is so important for a wife to have her own interests and her own passions and not to depend on her husband for her every bit of entertainment and … Continue reading “7 types of wives who will get dumped within 7 years of their marriage”

10 Things America’s Husbands Can Learn from Donald Trump

Marriage is expendable but it can be done with finesse When you divorce your wife it does not mean you divorce your kids Always get a prenup. Keep marrying up as far as youth and beauty. Never make promises you can’t keep as far as things like fidelity. Money does not a happy marriage make … Continue reading “10 Things America’s Husbands Can Learn from Donald Trump”

10 Cult Books You Need to Read This Year to Spice Up Your (Married) Love Life

In the post The Science of Succcessful, Sizzling Marital Sex I tried, perhaps unsuccessfully to provide you with some ideas of what could be missing and what you needed to do, from a scientific perspective, to fix what is wrong in your marital boudoir. Well, never mind that article. It was a fail. Let’s talk … Continue reading “10 Cult Books You Need to Read This Year to Spice Up Your (Married) Love Life”

Your Divorce Documents Checklist: What You Need to Take to Your Lawyer

Your Divorce Documents Checklist: What to Cart To Your Lawyer’s Office for the First Consultation So you may have already read The Ultimate Divorce To Do List and also How to Design Your Divorce in 10 Steps. I also recently wrote about how to figure out your net worth and net assets in this post because I … Continue reading “Your Divorce Documents Checklist: What You Need to Take to Your Lawyer”

The Ultimate Divorce To Do List

HERE ARE 50+ THINGS TO PUT ON YOUR DIVORCE TO DO LIST Do a pro and con list of leaving or staying together. Reach a decision and if it is “leave” then… Figure out who you want or need on your team and begin making initial calls. Gather important papers together (things for the properties, … Continue reading “The Ultimate Divorce To Do List”

9 Literal Ways to Take Your “Divorce Lemons” and Make Lemonade

Filed in Divorce Lists Divorce does not have to be all bad news. You can get inspiration from it, in fact. Here is a divorce list of 9 ways to take those lemons and make lemonade: Don’t let your divorce become a stigma in your life or a dark stain on your canvass. Instead, turn … Continue reading “9 Literal Ways to Take Your “Divorce Lemons” and Make Lemonade”

20 KICKASS WAYS TO REBOOT YOUR LIFE AFTER A DIVORCE

 Start each day by saying “Thank you universe for all the blessings in my life and for all the lessons you have deemed me important enough to learn.” Have a cup of coffee in a porcelaine cup in a quiet corner before you begin to deal with the stresses of your day. Do daily stretching … Continue reading “20 KICKASS WAYS TO REBOOT YOUR LIFE AFTER A DIVORCE”

16 Marriage Resolutions for 2017 to Help You Avoid Divorce Court

Wanna have a happier marriage in 2017? Resolve to do the following: Listen more Be more empathetic Be less judgmental Be less exacting Practice laughter and joy Be more trustworthy Trust more Re-commit to fidelity Have a date night (and don’t slip up) Stop spilling your marital problems to everybody Let your spouse feel that … Continue reading “16 Marriage Resolutions for 2017 to Help You Avoid Divorce Court”

Divorce Honeymoon in 2017? 10 Great Locales to Consider

So you are thinking about hosting your very own divorce honeymoon. Where should you guys go? There are so many options, really. It is a question of taste and budget and Cabo San Lucas, Mexico Honolulu Hawaii Miami, Florida Las Vegas, Nevada Aspen Colorado Turks & Caicos Islands Madagascar New York City Jamaica Buenos Aires, … Continue reading “Divorce Honeymoon in 2017? 10 Great Locales to Consider”

Your Post Divorce Makeover: 5 Things to Think About Changing

So you are recently divorced or just about to be divorced. Life is going to change and in probably more ways than five. You will have to adapt and it is not always going to be easy but it can be less daunting if you take control from the start of…your appearance. So here are … Continue reading “Your Post Divorce Makeover: 5 Things to Think About Changing”

Planning to Hit Your Spouse With a Divorce Petition in Early 2017? Here are 15 Things to Think About

  Your frame of mind Your tax situation Life Insurance policies Health insurance polices IRAs & 401Ks and Stocks/bonds Domestic Relations Orders (if applicable) Your Social media presence & profile Finding the right lawyer Income tax liabilities What will happen to the real estate The pets The friends The kids Your laptop and emails The … Continue reading “Planning to Hit Your Spouse With a Divorce Petition in Early 2017? Here are 15 Things to Think About”