On Wearing Your Divorce on Your Face by Kate Nguyen

The other day, my mother met up with a friend she’s known since high school who had recently become divorce. I know this person because her daughter and I are very good childhood friends and our families have a summer picnic together annually. But since last summer, the friend of my mother’s and the mother … Continue reading “On Wearing Your Divorce on Your Face by Kate Nguyen”

On buying yourself a car that flies: Got a six or seven figure divorce settlement? By Kate N.

In 2018, the world’s first legal flying car will go on sale in UK, according to a recent report. It is not necessarily the “prettiest” set of wheels I’ve ever seen but it sure does sound like an exciting adventure on the roads and in the skies. There will only be 90 of these puppies … Continue reading “On buying yourself a car that flies: Got a six or seven figure divorce settlement? By Kate N.”

On Saving Your Own Life By Jumping Ship From a Bad Marriage, by Kate Nguyen

So one of my fellow bloggers wrote a post yesterday which I found interesting called  In a Marriage From Hell But don’t Want to Get Divorced for the Sake of the Kids which you can read here. We both agreed that it is completely ridiculous to say that a person should stay in their marriage no … Continue reading “On Saving Your Own Life By Jumping Ship From a Bad Marriage, by Kate Nguyen”

On Having an Unfairly Blemished Reputation – That Strains Your Relationship, by Kate Nguyen

Do you have a blemished reputation? What do I mean by that? Well, has something happened in your life, in your past that has caused others to question your integrity, honesty, decency or sanity? It is funny because in my own circles, there have been incidences where I’ve seen marriages crack up because of distrust … Continue reading “On Having an Unfairly Blemished Reputation – That Strains Your Relationship, by Kate Nguyen”

On Why Gisele Bundchen and Tom Brady Could Divorce Soon After a Superbowl Win, by Kate Nguyen

So, I am not a sports fan and I don’t know anything about football. Let’s just start with that. But my man is a football fanatic and so even I know that the Superbowl was this past weekend and that the Patriots won and that Tom Brady is a hero and that it is his fifth … Continue reading “On Why Gisele Bundchen and Tom Brady Could Divorce Soon After a Superbowl Win, by Kate Nguyen”

On Getting Dumped Because You Are “Too Beautiful” by Kate Nguyen

I have been told often that I am a pretty girl. And I get hit on a lot. It is just a normal part of my day. I don’t say this to brag. I just say this because it is what it is. I do have my flaws. One being that I am a little … Continue reading “On Getting Dumped Because You Are “Too Beautiful” by Kate Nguyen”

On using divorce threats to keep your spouse in line

Are you getting threatened with divorce every time you have a little slip up? I hate it when my boyfriend threatens to break up with me if I don’t do something. Lately, he has said that a few times and I am not sure how to deal with it. I was talking to my colleagues … Continue reading “On using divorce threats to keep your spouse in line”

On When Your Husband Leaves You for an Older, Less Attractive Woman

As a woman in her twenties, I can’t imagine what it would feel like if my boyfriend dumped me for a woman who is older than me. Especially if its by a lot. Like ten years or something. This would be very insulting, I think. But it does happen. Look at Camilla Parker Bowles who … Continue reading “On When Your Husband Leaves You for an Older, Less Attractive Woman”

On Being Enough – by Kate Nguyen

We are very fond of Meghan Markle, the new girlfriend of Britain’s Prince Harry. So we follow her blog The Tig and I even read one of her posts this morning about “being enough.” And I just thought it was a great article because I know the struggle of feeling like you are not enough … Continue reading “On Being Enough – by Kate Nguyen”

On When He Takes Your Femininity Away – by Kate Nguyen

This one is a weird topic but we were discussing this subject yesterday and it came up about my friend Josh who I knew senior year in college. We liked each other, and hung out all the time but it was always very weird between us. I was never sure if he liked me in … Continue reading “On When He Takes Your Femininity Away – by Kate Nguyen”

On the Cessation of Coitus in a Marriage – by Kate Nguyen

Obviously, when coitus stops, you are in trouble. If it continues for more than a year, I am told there is a legal name for it – Constructive Abandonment.  Coitus cannot stop in a marriage without consequence. But why does it sometimes stop? What caused a couple to grow tired and bored with each other? … Continue reading “On the Cessation of Coitus in a Marriage – by Kate Nguyen”

On When Baby Makes a Divorce – by Kate Nguyen

  Babies can lead to massive marital upheavals. Sure, swimming in your lovely little head is this Brangelina fantasy of a passel of impossibly cute babies turned children that you can cart across continents to the glee of paparazzi and other voyeurs – and happily ever after with your own gorgeous & gorgeous equivalent of Brad Pitt. … Continue reading “On When Baby Makes a Divorce – by Kate Nguyen”

On the Proper Care of a Vagina, For Young Wives – by Kate Nguyen

When Donald Trump was caught on tape saying the “p” word, the country and maybe the entire planet collectively gasped. Nobody could believe that a man running for president had used the word pussy. It’s as if it is a big crime or something to refer to a woman’s body parts. I happen to like … Continue reading “On the Proper Care of a Vagina, For Young Wives – by Kate Nguyen”

On Getting Your Post-Divorce Bikini Body Back: A 10 Minute Daily NUDE workout – by Kate Nguyen

I’m a fat, twenty-something Asian chick who has never married – just as a disclaimer – so I know that I should not be giving anybody advise on getting their bikini body back after a divorce. But I just saw some photos of Sasha Obama in Miami wearing a bikini and I just thought “wow. Nice … Continue reading “On Getting Your Post-Divorce Bikini Body Back: A 10 Minute Daily NUDE workout – by Kate Nguyen”

On Being Under 30 and Divorced – by Kate Nguyen

I am under thirty but I have never married and certainly I have never divorced. I have never even shacked up with anyone. But this demographic of people  under 30 seems to be a very busy bunch indeed. My contemporaries all seem to be divorced, or have been shacking up to avoid having to divorce … Continue reading “On Being Under 30 and Divorced – by Kate Nguyen”

On Choosing Between a Spouse and a Pet – by Kate Nguyen

Pets and relationships So one of the topics my editor asked me to discuss is pets and their impact on marriages and divorces. How the heck would I know, right? I have never been married or divorced. Marion and I were talking the other day about this subject and she asked me this question: “so … Continue reading “On Choosing Between a Spouse and a Pet – by Kate Nguyen”