On When Your Spouse Uses His Gun to Intimidate You, by Kate Nguyen

The woman said that her partner told her that he knew exactly how to shoot her to make her paralyzed.
And you just think “Jesus Christ.”

The woman said that her partner told her that he knew exactly how to shoot her to make her paralyzed.
And you just think “Jesus Christ.”

On Dating a Divorced Man With Kids, by Kate Nguyen

Divorced Men With Kids My current boyfriend is a divorced man and he has a couple of young kids. Luckily for us, his kids live with their mother on the West Coast and we are on the East Coast. He only sees them a few times a year in New York and the rest of … Continue reading “On Dating a Divorced Man With Kids, by Kate Nguyen”

On Divorcing Your Rich Husband Because He and His Family (his mother!) Made you Unhappy

It is a question of scorn, jealousy, hate and prejudice. Mixed together it can be lethal. If your husband is not the type of guy who can stand up to his mother and sisters and other siblings, then yes, your marriage will be doomed

It is a question of scorn, jealousy, hate and prejudice. Mixed together it can be lethal. If your husband is not the type of guy who can stand up to his mother and sisters and other siblings, then yes, your marriage will be doomed

On Being Happy AFTER divorce, by Kate Nguyen

Just now, I completed an opinion piece called   How to have a Happy Divorce. It is a piece about the divorce process, and staying in a good frame of mind during this time – from getting served the divorce papers to actually getting the judgment of divorce. After I finished it, the editor asked me … Continue reading “On Being Happy AFTER divorce, by Kate Nguyen”

On How to Have a Happy Divorce Process, by Kate Nguyen

Some divorces just aren’t going to be a happy process no matter what you do. But others can be molded into clouds of light, fluffy happiness, in my opinion if you follow the advice I give you below. The way you have a happy divorce is: You first of all, keep a sense of humor no … Continue reading “On How to Have a Happy Divorce Process, by Kate Nguyen”

On Wearing Your Divorce on Your Face by Kate Nguyen

The other day, my mother met up with a friend she’s known since high school who had recently become divorce. I know this person because her daughter and I are very good childhood friends and our families have a summer picnic together annually. But since last summer, the friend of my mother’s and the mother … Continue reading “On Wearing Your Divorce on Your Face by Kate Nguyen”

On buying yourself a car that flies: Got a six or seven figure divorce settlement? By Kate N.

In 2018, the world’s first legal flying car will go on sale in UK, according to a recent report. It is not necessarily the “prettiest” set of wheels I’ve ever seen but it sure does sound like an exciting adventure on the roads and in the skies. There will only be 90 of these puppies … Continue reading “On buying yourself a car that flies: Got a six or seven figure divorce settlement? By Kate N.”

On Saving Your Own Life By Jumping Ship From a Bad Marriage, by Kate Nguyen

So one of my fellow bloggers wrote a post yesterday which I found interesting called  In a Marriage From Hell But don’t Want to Get Divorced for the Sake of the Kids which you can read here. We both agreed that it is completely ridiculous to say that a person should stay in their marriage no … Continue reading “On Saving Your Own Life By Jumping Ship From a Bad Marriage, by Kate Nguyen”

On Having an Unfairly Blemished Reputation – That Strains Your Relationship, by Kate Nguyen

Do you have a blemished reputation? What do I mean by that? Well, has something happened in your life, in your past that has caused others to question your integrity, honesty, decency or sanity? It is funny because in my own circles, there have been incidences where I’ve seen marriages crack up because of distrust … Continue reading “On Having an Unfairly Blemished Reputation – That Strains Your Relationship, by Kate Nguyen”

On Why Gisele Bundchen and Tom Brady Could Divorce Soon After a Superbowl Win, by Kate Nguyen

So, I am not a sports fan and I don’t know anything about football. Let’s just start with that. But my man is a football fanatic and so even I know that the Superbowl was this past weekend and that the Patriots won and that Tom Brady is a hero and that it is his fifth … Continue reading “On Why Gisele Bundchen and Tom Brady Could Divorce Soon After a Superbowl Win, by Kate Nguyen”

On Getting Dumped Because You Are “Too Beautiful” by Kate Nguyen

I have been told often that I am a pretty girl. And I get hit on a lot. It is just a normal part of my day. I don’t say this to brag. I just say this because it is what it is. I do have my flaws. One being that I am a little … Continue reading “On Getting Dumped Because You Are “Too Beautiful” by Kate Nguyen”

On using divorce threats to keep your spouse in line

Are you getting threatened with divorce every time you have a little slip up? I hate it when my boyfriend threatens to break up with me if I don’t do something. Lately, he has said that a few times and I am not sure how to deal with it. I was talking to my colleagues … Continue reading “On using divorce threats to keep your spouse in line”

On When Your Husband Leaves You for an Older, Less Attractive Woman

As a woman in her twenties, I can’t imagine what it would feel like if my boyfriend dumped me for a woman who is older than me. Especially if its by a lot. Like ten years or something. This would be very insulting, I think. But it does happen. Look at Camilla Parker Bowles who … Continue reading “On When Your Husband Leaves You for an Older, Less Attractive Woman”

On Being Enough – by Kate Nguyen

We are very fond of Meghan Markle, the new girlfriend of Britain’s Prince Harry. So we follow her blog The Tig and I even read one of her posts this morning about “being enough.” And I just thought it was a great article because I know the struggle of feeling like you are not enough … Continue reading “On Being Enough – by Kate Nguyen”

On When He Takes Your Femininity Away – by Kate Nguyen

This one is a weird topic but we were discussing this subject yesterday and it came up about my friend Josh who I knew senior year in college. We liked each other, and hung out all the time but it was always very weird between us. I was never sure if he liked me in … Continue reading “On When He Takes Your Femininity Away – by Kate Nguyen”

On the Cessation of Coitus in a Marriage – by Kate Nguyen

Obviously, when coitus stops, you are in trouble. If it continues for more than a year, I am told there is a legal name for it – Constructive Abandonment.  Coitus cannot stop in a marriage without consequence. But why does it sometimes stop? What caused a couple to grow tired and bored with each other? … Continue reading “On the Cessation of Coitus in a Marriage – by Kate Nguyen”