If You Knew Your Spouse Had Been Hell Bent on Marry Someone Else Shortly Before You Two Engaged, Would You Still Say Yes?

If you had known that your spouse had been “hell bent” on marrying someone else right before you hooked up, would you still have said yes? I was talking to a friend the other day and she told me that before she and her husband got engaged, he had been hell bent on marrying his … Continue reading “If You Knew Your Spouse Had Been Hell Bent on Marry Someone Else Shortly Before You Two Engaged, Would You Still Say Yes?”

Would You Divorce Your Husband IF He Transitioned to a Woman? Or Your Wife If She Transitioned to a Man?

IF YOUR SPOUSE DECIDES TO TRANSITION TO ANOTHER GENDER WOULD YOU STAY MARRIED OR ASK FOR A DIVORCE? A lot has been said and debated about the Kardashians and in particular the decision of patriarch Bruce Jenner, now Caitlin Jenner, to become the female version of himself. As fascinating as it it to watch in … Continue reading “Would You Divorce Your Husband IF He Transitioned to a Woman? Or Your Wife If She Transitioned to a Man?”

Can This Marriage Be Saved? Maybe But You Probably Should Hire a Cleaning Lady.

I read somewhere recently that the reason a lot of people are unhappy is that they don’t outsource work they don’t like enough. One of the types of work mentioned in the article was housework like doing the dishes. Apparently, some people hate these mundane tasks so much, that they literally become depressed. Imagine if … Continue reading “Can This Marriage Be Saved? Maybe But You Probably Should Hire a Cleaning Lady.”

What does your husband’s latest car purchase say about the state of your marriage? Are you heading for divorce?

Beware the husband who goes out and purchases a “fast” car. When I was fairly young, too young to know any better, I arrived home from a carnival on the back of my friend Sonia’s cousin Mello’s motorcycle. It’s a long story and there was a reason that I felt I had no choice but … Continue reading “What does your husband’s latest car purchase say about the state of your marriage? Are you heading for divorce?”

Forget Marriage Envy: Call off the Divorce And Learn How to Replicate the Joy Everybody Else Has in Your Own Marriage

“Marriage envy is a very common phenomenon but you can choose to let it inspire you into avoiding divorce rather than eating yourself up with envy. Because happiness is a decision.” Bob Sumner Do you have marriage envy? Do you envy other people’s marriages while at the same time you find yourself on the verge … Continue reading “Forget Marriage Envy: Call off the Divorce And Learn How to Replicate the Joy Everybody Else Has in Your Own Marriage”

Can Having a Baby Save Your Marriage? It did for Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott

Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott Prove That Having a Baby Can Save Your Marriage After Divorce Scare Not even ten minutes after I wrote this post about how babies can wreck your marriage, I saw this post about Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott and how they say having a fifth child named Beau Dean has … Continue reading “Can Having a Baby Save Your Marriage? It did for Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott”

Are Kids Bad for your Marriage? Yes, But They Are Likely to Keep You From Divorce Court

Are Kids Bad For Marriage? Are kids bad for marriage? Do kids make marriages stronger? Or do they put the marriage at risk? Are people with children happier than childless couples? What are the advantages to having children (when you are married) to not having children? Does having children reduce the likelihood that you will … Continue reading “Are Kids Bad for your Marriage? Yes, But They Are Likely to Keep You From Divorce Court”

Did You End Up Feeling Grateful For Your Divorce?

Do you feel “Grateful” For Your Divorce? It is almost inconceivable to some people, but there are people whose predominant emotion relating to their divorce is GRATITUDE. Are you one of those people who just wants to say to your ex “thanks” for divorcing me? Or do you feel a totally different emotion, like anger … Continue reading “Did You End Up Feeling Grateful For Your Divorce?”

Is your husband’s stinginess destroying your marriage?

When your husband is cheap, it could literally lead to divorce: But it doesn’t necessarily mean he is a bad person Let me ask you this question: How much did your husband spend on your first date together? Where did he take you? Did you go dutch? Why do I ask. No particular reason. I … Continue reading “Is your husband’s stinginess destroying your marriage?”

Is Your Pregnancy Ruining Your Sex Life to the Point that You Fear Divorce Could Happen?

Is your pregnancy destroying your marriage? Some guys can’t get intimate with their pregnant wives no matter what she does. She could try sexy lingerie, new acrobatic positions and scented candles but the thought that a life is growing inside her stomach and that it is actually kicking and moving, can literally render a husband … Continue reading “Is Your Pregnancy Ruining Your Sex Life to the Point that You Fear Divorce Could Happen?”

Does Chrissy Teigen Have Post Partum Depression After Baby Luna? And is her marriage to John Legend in Jeopardy?

Post Partum Depression & Divorce: Sometimes having children can burden a new marriage. Just ask John Legend and Chrissy Teigen New parents can sometimes find themselves enmeshed in marital difficulties due to the stress brought on by having this new person in their relationship. Our Divorce Saloon opinion editor Kate Nguyen wrote about this very … Continue reading “Does Chrissy Teigen Have Post Partum Depression After Baby Luna? And is her marriage to John Legend in Jeopardy?”

15 Questions to Ask Yourself before you marry this person

    Questions to ask before you marry:   What is this person’s religious and spiritual beliefs and habits and do they align with mine? Does this person want kids? Do I? What is this person’s socio economic status and are we evenly yoked in this regard? What is this person’s age and how does it compare … Continue reading “15 Questions to Ask Yourself before you marry this person”