On When Your Husband is Clearly Fucking His Secretary But Tries to Play Like You’re Insane

I sincerely apologize for using the graphic & gross language in the title of this post but sometimes,  I think husbands think their wives are stupid. Actually, it is not just husbands. Boyfriends and significant others do it too. They cheat on you in very obvious ways that then try to play like you are the one who is crazy.  And don’t think that just because the secretary looks like a rottweiler that that means a can of beans.

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The Secretary

When your husband is having an affair with his secretary can you interpret the signs? My girlfriend is going through this problem as we speak. Her husband is clearing having a fling with  his leggy Brunette secretary (who seems to be otherwise competent at her job I gotta say) but everytime my friend brings up the issue, he shouts at her and calls her a nut case paranoid schizophrenic.

The secretary is not that hot but she is not that bad either. I have seen her. But she has really nice calves and lush brunette hair. She’s had some cosmetic procedures like I believe she straightened her nose and her bum looks like it was enhanced but believe me, even without the help, she is a stunner. Is she hotter than my friend? Well, she is younger. She is about 20 years younger than my friend albeit that my friend looks very good for her age. My friend thinks the secretary looks like a rottweiler. I personally think that is kind of harsh.

My friend keeps coming to me for advice as if I am some kind of expert guru at these sorts of things. She keeps saying “when your husband is banging the secretary and you know it, what are you supposed to do?” What am I supposed to say? Confirm her worse suspicions? Lie to her? She is a basket case about this and I don’t want to push her over the edge.

This guy is really a pig, I have to say. And he has been cheating on her since before they even married and we all tried to warn my friend but she either didn’t care or she was oblivious. She really wanted to marry this guy. Because other than his philandering, he is not a bad catch. He certainly keeps her in lavish surroundings and even if he works a lot, she has a lot to entertain her. No, not the gardener. She is not a stereotype. But she has a lot of activities that keeps her busy and they do have 3 young daughters and she is a full time mother.

But I think for her this is about her pride and I understand because when your husband is having an affair like that, of course you are going to be totally crazy about it. The secretary is obviously on a mission. She does not want to be just a fling. She wants to be the next missus. And it looks like she could pull it off. I don’t know what to advice my friend. What would you advise if you were me? I actually think she should just dump the bastard. But maybe that would be precipitate and rash. What do you think she should do?

 

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