Dirty divorce tricks and how to beat your wives at their own game (for men, husbands, dads)




GUYS, YOU HAVE RIGHTS. FATHER’S HAVE RIGHTS. DADS HAVE RIGHTS. HUSBANDS HAVE RIGHTS. Don’t let your wife run all over you in your divorce. YOU CAN WIN YOUR DIVORCE. You can beat your wife at her own game!

First of all, have you read the book No BS Divorce Strategies For Men? If your answer is no, run, don’t walk to your computer and get a copy now. The book was written by a stock analyst and it is 136 pages of gold. Get yourself a copy. Today. You can get it in e-book form. Just Google the title and you’ll be good to go.

Look, divorce is hard on all of us. Believe me, it was hard on me and it is even harder on the next guy. But if you understand the fundamentals, you can beat your wives at every dirty trick that she throws your way.

First of all, just accept that they have an advantage. They initiate almost 90% of divorces and in nearly 90% of the cases, they win custody. But why you ask yourselves? Are they better at being wives than we are at being husbands? Are they better at being a parent than we are at being fathers? Maybe. But it could also be that they know how to manipulate the system better too. They are online in chat rooms getting tricks and strategies from their online girlfriends and they get divorce lawyers and judges who are totally biased towards men. So that may play a big role in the circus more than casually concluding that they are better mothers or better spouses than we are.

Now, one of the main things women do early on to get an advantage in a divorce action, is they bring an ORDER OF PROTECTION against you. They try to paint you in the blackest light before the court. They accuse you of a ton of sins some you haven’t even ever thought of before. And the judges believe them! That is why it is so important to read the bible on this issue, by Matt O’Connell. He tells you exactly what to do about that.

Now, depending on where you live, you have a better or worse chance of getting custody.  You better believe your wife is going to fight dirty with this one. First of all, she wants custody because, sure she may love the kids, but it also means she gets a lot more money from you than she would get if she didn’t have the kids. So she is going to try to show that she is the better parent, that you were an absentee father who “worked all the time” and had nothing to do with raising the kids. Again, Read Matt’s book to get the low down on how to protect yourself and fight back.

But make no mistake about it. The biggest, toughest battle is going to be about money. She will leave you penniless if you let her. Take every dime and leave you with the shirt on your back – if that. I know guys who were ordered to pay their wives up to 75% of their pensions that they worked hard for their whole working lives! And half the time the wife did nothing to contribute to this. She sat at home, and claims that because she raised the kids she should get all your money. But it’s a balancing act because you can fight for custody and spend hundreds of thousands. Or you can ask yourself whether the cost/benefit analysis works in your favor. And do you really want custody? There are certain benefits to being the non-custodial parent. The point being don’t just succumb to your wife’s dirty divorce tricks. But at the same time, protect yourself and make sure what you want before you act.

Last point. Get a damn good lawyer. It doesn’t have to be a “rain maker” type. But somebody who knows what the hell he/she is talking about and an expert in divorce law – preferably one focused on father’s rights.  Chances are, there’s no other way you will beat her without good back up.

– Bryan K Pauly for Divorce Saloon

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4 Comments for “Dirty divorce tricks and how to beat your wives at their own game (for men, husbands, dads)”

  1. Wifie

    Ugh. I hate when stats are referenced about the “alarming” number of women who file for divorce over that of men. Women file for divorce to protect themselves from the lazy bastard that left them in the first place. Countless number of women are walked out on and the husband does nothing, except drain bank accounts, sell assets and shack up with the “other” that they are now shacked up with. How many times have you heard from husbands, “I gave her everything”? Of course they did. That is how these men justify their actions for leaving in the first place. Give the kids, give her the house, give her the bank account (or whats left in it anyway) and run away as fast as you can.
    Of the many, many divorced women i know, each filed. Not because they wanted a divorce, but because the man was too busy running away to get it done himself.

  2. lynn

    yes, the son-of-a-gun was having an affair!! after 25 years of marriage, giving myself to his family’s needs and just barely getting by for myself, i caught him, 9 months of lies, cheating, and stealing from the family money (what little we had). i had had enough, i gave him chance after chance to “do the right thing”, of course he wanted his cake and eat it too, meaning he wanted to come home after living with the “other” for 1 month, said he needed rest and a decent meal, but refused to give her up, then i said no-way i would live like this, he attacked me physically and verbally, he got arrested and now let’s see what happens??

  3. Jack

    Once again women trying to set up control a forum for men to prepare themselves against the onslaught of divorce. This is a site to help the maze of the legal frame work that heavly favors females. I would say that it is our fault of not being able to comunicator to each other our own deficienes of failure.

  4. Louise

    We’re not all greedy. After he tried to kill me in front of our kid no less, I daresay I deserved the protective order that the ocurt issued. Still, it’s not my intention to take everything but the shirt off his back. Nope. I want the assets I brought into the marriage, as well as a fair share of what I earned during the marriage, and I want custody of the child that two psychologists say shouldn’t be allowed to see him for a long, long time. And with custody, comes child support, which is determined by a formula. And I think I represent most women in my situatin.

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